Realizing that many of my friends have or are beginning families of their own, I wanted to share a few of
my favorite family Christmas traditions!
1. Advent
Every night (or whenever we could manage) during Advent season, we would turn out the lights, turn on the tree lights, and light a few candles (amazing how simple things like this set a mood). Then we would sing a Christmas song, read an age-appropriate Advent devotional, and pray for friends and neighbors (especially those we had received Christmas cards from). And of course, we had (
or made) chocolate calendars...arguably my sisters' and my favorite parts in early years!
If you want to join in the tradition, the Jesse Tree is a good resource (free to Google!) for children's
Advent celebration - easy to adapt to different age levels using children's Bibles or similar resources - or there are a lot of good books and flip books too! For adults, there are plenty of options, but we enjoyed
John Piper's free ebook Good News of Great Joy last year.
2. "Saint Nicking"
"Saint Nicking" was one of our more unusual and fun Christmas traditions! We would fill a plate with
goodies, tailored to the people if we knew them well enough, and leave them on their doorstep, "ding
dong ditch" style - ringing the doorbell and running off as fast as we could, so that we wouldn't get
caught! We'd hide behind nearby bushes or cars, peeking around to try to spy the reaction from the
receiver of the gift - the greatest enjoyment came when the folks at the door were suspicious and
attempted to figure out who had left the gift! We'd leave an anonymous note composed by Mom with the goodies:
In the spirit of the first St. Nickolaus
Knowing God’s great gift to us.
Out of thanks and gratitude St Nick
Would bring poor kids a little gift.
And so we come to you this season
With love, sharing St. Nick’s reason.
God knew we needed Jesus’ help
For we could never save ourselves.
So Jesus’ birth that Christmas night
Began the plan to make things right.
For us to have forgiveness, peace, and joy,
The God who saves was born a boy.
For after Christmas was Easter day
When Jesus took our sins away.
St. Nick and us want to do our part
To let you know God’s love in your heart.
So tonight we leave these treats at your door
To remind us what Christ gave was so much more
Let this star hang shining bright,
To remind us of that Christmas night.
Speaking of the original Saint Nick, we grew up knowing Santa Claus wasn't real, but learned to
associate him with the historical figure, who seems to have been a very generous and humble man
(although the Catholic church foolishly venerates him as a special saint - foolish because all Christians are saints in Christ - and attribute posthumous miracles to him, as you'll discover in any resource that tells his story).
3. Birthday party for Jesus
There are so many great symbols of Christ throughout Christmas - even those that weren't initially
intended as Christian symbols can often be redeemed in such a way that everywhere we look during the Christmas season can remind us of Jesus! Christmas trees and candy canes are two great examples. Mom has used these symbols as entrees to the Gospel many times. She hosted parties for neighborhood kids, celebrating Jesus' birthday, and sharing cookies, treats, and a birthday cake for Jesus, while explaining the meaning behind the season :) One year we memorably acted out Jesus' birth story, complete with costumes (nothing fancy, but still fun!) in our backyard.
4. Birthday gift for Jesus
We don't just give each other presents for Christmas; we also give presents to Jesus! Every year, Mom and Dad would select a ministry and give a special donation to it, then place a representative picture in an envelope and place it under the tree. (
The Samaritan’s Purse gift catalog is a great avenue for this when kids are young, because the gifts are concrete). On Christmas morning, we would open the envelope and learn what they had given as a "birthday present to Jesus" :)
5. Operation Christmas Child
We had so much fun going shopping gifts and packing them in a plastic box (more useful long term than an official shoe box) to send to our “shoebox girls”! We tended to pack boxes for children of our ages, so that we could send toys and gifts that we enjoyed to them. For many years when we were older, we helped process and ship the gifts too. I always included a letter to the recipient, and one time even received a reply from one of the girls' parents!